Safety & respectful use

Last updated: June 2026

YES or YES is meant for one thing: sending someone a playful, good-natured “yes” invitation. Here’s how to use it kindly - and what to do if an invitation isn’t welcome.

1. Use it for playful, respectful asks

Send invitations to people you know and would be happy to hear from. Keep it light and warm - that’s the whole point.

2. Don’t use it to pressure anyone

YES or YES is not for harassment, spam, or pressure. Don’t use it to contact someone repeatedly, to corner them, or to make anyone feel cornered into a “yes”.

3. The recipient is always free to walk away

If you receive an invitation, you can simply ignore it or close the page - nothing is sent unless you choose an answer. If something feels wrong, use Report this invite on the invitation page to flag it to us.

4. The dodging “No” button is a joke

On the invitation page the “No” button playfully runs away. That’s a bit of fun - it is not consent and it is not an answer. In real life, “no” is always valid, and it should be respected.

5. Senders are responsible

If you create and send an invitation, you’re responsible for what you send and to whom. Make sure the person would actually welcome it.

6. Abusive invitations can be turned off

Invitations used to harass, threaten, or pressure people may be disabled. If you’ve received one that crosses the line, report it or email us at support@justsayyesto.me.